Up to today...Iam maintaining a 6 years relationship...6 years with the same girl!!!
It is relative for us to say whether 6 is along time or a short time...If you compare it to my friend who could stay for 10 years before they get marriage, 6 is short time...but in average 6 years relationship is a long time...
What iam about to discuss is not about the periode of time...but about how should this long periode relationship should make its decission in marriage...
Iam freakin out when i found out that most of my colleague in the office have been separated after maintaining a long relationship (6-7 years in average)...Many causes heve made them separated...My friend said that after maintaining a long relationship they were able to understand the partners characteristic very well, and found out that they were not align...Two of my friends had the same reason, their parents didnt agree...My other friend broke up because they have difference in faith (religgion) after maintaining 6 years relatioship...And one of the worst, my friend broke up because his girl hooked up with her friend, a friend who was very often with her...The last was the worst situation...THIS REALY FRIGHTENED ME....!!!!
I once said this to my friend: the future is not to be frightened to, but to be deal with...
Yup, this is the right phrase for me....If Iam covered with fear of breaking up..i believe i would be more possesive to my girlfriend...I would do whatever it takes to get rid of her male friend in getting closer to her..i would be too possesive and too protective...beleive me...cause i have experienced this after i heard stories from my friends...
So..our concerned should move to ways in maintaining this long relationship....What should we do then??
Long relationship have great problem tendency in bored and affairs..
Just this evening my friend told me to give more suprising things to my girlfriend, in order to overcome the bored that could appears..He told me to make a music cd full of great love song that reminds me of her...so GIVE SURPRISES.....I beleive there many ways in maintaining long periode relationship...
FOR ALL OF LONG PERIODE COUPLE OUT THERE...DONT WORRY ABOUT YOUR FUTURE..CONCENTRATE ON HOW TO NURTURED YOUR RELATIONSHIP...GOOD LUCK :)